Here are my sister's and mine graduating photos from a couple of weeks ago, taken by our amazing friend and photographer, Ida Blychert:
However, you first think: Ok, she's in her final year. She looks happy in these photos, she's got her life figured out. If you assumed this, trust me when I say, HECK to the no. I still find I easily slip into this tornado of negativity and stress once it hits me how close the semester is coming to an end. In fact, I may or may not have had a little cry in bed from sheer stress and self-pressure as recently as a week ago. So trust me when I say, we ALL go through it, and it's never easy. Having said that, I do still want to assure you that it does get better. I find that I was in a terrible mind-set, stressing about my four finals crammed into one single week, and feeling absolutely hopeless. But, after a little pep-talk from my sister, it all suddenly clicked inside my head that I really needed to change the way I thought about finals, and inspired me to write this blogpost.
So without further adieu, here is my little recipe on how to stay positive and hopefully succeed on your final exams (although don't get me wrong, the very obvious step is to study, study, study!)
1) Stop thinking of how much you have to do, and just do it.
This literally happens to me EVERY year: I make a study schedule, fall a little behind, and then freak out because that count-down to that super hard final is going down, time is ticking away and away, and *cue the negative stress spiral of finals doom here*
So, how do we get out of this negative mind-set?
2) Keep your goals SIMPLE.
3) Take 10 minute breaks.
4) Change your environment.
5) Change subjects.
Now this one can kind of depend on your situation, since if it's the day before your important final exam, you're going to want to focus on that subject all day. But in my case, I have 4 exams in one week, in pretty close proximity to each other. So I really don't have a choice but to constantly change subjects and ensure I'm studying for all of them. And I'm saying this because it's true - it's actually nice to change subjects, especially if they're also pretty different. Maybe you have a take-home essay you have to do by Friday but also a bunch of readings from your psychology class on brain cognition. Make that change once you get tired of one, it honestly makes all the difference and keeps your brain pretty stimulated.
6) Sleep, sleep, sleep!
I know that nights are long and all-nighters are possible with coffee - I've pushed myself hard in the past to get through all the material for a course. But honestly, sometimes it's so much better to just say to yourself "Ok, enough is enough for today. Let's go to sleep and start again tomorrow." 8 hours of sleep for me is the sweet spot for amount of sleep, so whether you're a night-owl or an early bird, just make sure you set that alarm in 8 hours, and I guarantee you that the next morning you will feel refreshed, recuperated and ready to tackle another intense day of studying!
6) Attitude really IS everything.
Or you can gain a sense of perspective, like my histology professor, who pep-talked us on our last lecture:
"Try your best. Maybe you want a better mark in this course than you have right now. But remember that if you don't, it's also going to be ok. The sun will still rise, it will still set, and in a hundred years, we'll all be dead anyway."
I hope this little recipe makes you feel just a teeny bit better. Or maybe you used this blogpost as a procrastination method, in which case, BACK TO STUDYING WE GO!
-Veronika










